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| Subject: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:14 pm | |
| AS A MAN WHY CANT I JUST BE LONELY? WHY CANT I JUST BE MENTALLY HURT? WHY CANT I JUST BE EMOTIONAL AND READY TO SETTLE?
HOW COME ITS ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES THAT I HAVE SOME SIDE AGENDA TO GET INTO HER PANITES? | |
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NIGHTSTICK Bronze Status
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:42 pm | |
| Cuz society got women thinking that's all we want | |
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CORNBREAD FED Gold Status
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:32 pm | |
| Thats true nite stic, but it's also actions that ppl show and see that plays apart... U don't have 2 change or be different, but a word or text can go along way 2 a woman just something different from what she is use 2 hearing and reading.... A woman loves a strong man GOL & she mite not think that's the only thing u want.... She mite understand that u have been hurt & have anotha life, but she mite wanna be that woman who wants 2 help u get thru that so u don't have 2 stress 2 urself, but u gotta let her in though.. I mean it aint easy being a woman who is looked @ 4 sex all the time... No one should judge or assume thats what the otha party is on... just talk about it with the young lady and let that be known offline... & trust u'll c a difference... Be good boi's
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 4:20 pm | |
| if ur acting like a true gentleman and she still thinks that...let her go...don't waste ur time trying prove something to someone. I have had a lot men walk away from me because I wouldn't sleep with them and that's fine...its not that serious for me to have a man...I take love and relationships very seriously and I feel to give urself to someone is a privilege to them and everybody doesn't get that privilege.I know what I want from a man and if he doesn't have those qualities he won't be my man...I don't think about trying to change a man cuz I know I can't.
so if u told her u want more and she doesn't belive..let her go..find someone who isn't afraid of loving again...find someone who will see that u r in it for something more and that will appreciate that. | |
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Bleu Silver Status
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 4:25 pm | |
| - gentleman-of-love wrote:
- AS A MAN WHY CANT I JUST BE LONELY?
WHY CANT I JUST BE MENTALLY HURT? WHY CANT I JUST BE EMOTIONAL AND READY TO SETTLE?
HOW COME ITS ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES THAT I HAVE SOME SIDE AGENDA TO GET INTO HER PANITES? Well I will say this love. Women know eventually you gonna wanna get into our panties but it is all about the delivery that a woman looks for in a man. I give men the benefit of the dought until they make me think otherwise so i really dont' fall into what u r speaking of but I will say women who have constantly been hurt think that all men have an agenda. She actually has to look within herself and find out y she trippin so hard because each man is different so you can't throw them all in the same pile. But there are some meen out there who about gaming and can't keep it 100 and that y a lot of women feel that way. It's a double edge sword love. So baby it aint u it's normally the female with the issues. Society might play a part in it but it aint the real reason. | |
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Weekend-lover Silver Status
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:46 pm | |
| I APPRECIATE ALL THE INPUT AND I WILL FIRST ANALYZE ME AND MAYBE CHANGE SOME SMALL PARTS IN ME...AND THEN I WILL TRY TO PUT THIS THOUGHT ASIDE, BECAUSE I DONT WANT ONE THOUGHT TO RUIN ME FINDING A WOMAN THAT WILL TRULY SHOW ME ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFTS TO MAN..WHICH IS HIS "WIFE"
-GOL | |
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choclatstar Silver Status
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| Subject: Why Can't I..... Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:06 pm | |
| AS A MAN WHY CANT I JUST BE LONELY? WHY CANT I JUST BE MENTALLY HURT? WHY CANT I JUST BE EMOTIONAL AND READY TO SETTLE?
HOW COME ITS ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES THAT I HAVE SOME SIDE AGENDA TO GET INTO HER PANITES
Basically society. and so few men actually take time to show a woman different. Women that take the time understand that men have feelings to. | |
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Miz. Joseph Silver Status
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:18 pm | |
| I feel you GOL-- Honestly I think men always fall in love with the wrong women and women do it with men as well. We tend to look at what a person looks like, what they have, etc and not the heart of a person. I just got done reading a book where one of the main characters said, " You can learn to love the Lord but you can't learn to be fine"-- he ended up marrying a women he really wasn't compatible with--- I mean, we fall in love with how good a person's sex is-- all that but never the core of them. If we can't look at a person in their eyes and truly see their soul , they are not for us--hence the title "soul mates". Find you a cute, spiritual and intelligent female. If she loves God, then she will love herself which means she will know how to love you. If she is smart, she will do what she can to please and keep her man without risking her own identity or feeling like she's lost herself in him. Loving someone is not as hard as we make it. I am no expert but I have learned alot about people and relationships by analyzing my own and others around me. If we learned to communicate like adults (no yelling and screaming) and if we learned to give each other the benefit of the doubt then we may get somewhere with the opposite sex. The new woman is not Keisha who hurt you, Malcolm is not Keith that hurt us women. We have to learn how to pray and leave it to God. No one wants to be lonely and believe me, I have done my my share of crying nights asking God when I was going to get my life's partner and I was married! LOL... But we have to leave it to HIM because at the end of the day, God knows all things and knows the desires of our heart-- He will never forsake us or put on us anything more than we can bear-- just leave it to him baby--- I promise your wife will come when you least expect it. Love ya all! | |
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| Subject: Re: WHY CANT I JUST BE? Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:41 am | |
| Thats rite Miz J seek ye 1st the Kingdom of Heaven... | |
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Miz. Joseph Silver Status
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