I am an anal virgin and would love to know the secret to doing it!

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WELL DELICIOUS...FOR A BEGINNER LIKE URSELF I SUGGEST YOU LAY ON YOUR SIDE AND COCK ONE LEG UP...AND FOR A GOOD LUBRICATION USE JOHNSONS BABY OIL GEL....TRUST ME

AND AS FOR THE DUDE...HE NEEDS TO TREAT THAT HOLE LIKE A VIRGIN AND WORK HIMSELF SLOWLY IN...NO NEED TO RUSH AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL BE CUMMING FROM BOTH HOLES..

Ok delicious...the job I have...I literally learn from the "sexperts" The secret to anal sex is all about communication relaxation and lubrication. First you wanna make sure that ur partner knows to go slow at first...maybe start with a finger or a small anal plug...oops...forgot about the lube...make sure it is a silicon based lube...DONT USE KY...it has alcohol in it...it will dry you out and if you are having rough sex can tend to burn...silicon based lube is the best because it will last a long time...a water based lube you will have to keep reapplying...you want to make sure you are relaxed...you can start on ur side with him behind you ...or in the doggy style position...you really want to make sure you are relaxed....mind AND body...the anus is a muscle so you have to make sure it is relaxed and not tensed up cuz that is when you may feel discomfort...if it hurts...it is not being done correctly...ANAL SHOULD NOT HURT...for first timers...there are things out there like Anal Ease...it is not recommended for first timers cuz if you don't know what ur doing...you could really damage something because you are numb from the product...and when it wears off...you may not want to try anal again...

I know a whole lot of folks use baby oil or things like that...DONT it can lead to infection...they make products for sex and baby oil is not one of them...

Mama and GOL hit all the important points; have your partner take his time and make sure you use the right lube as a beginner. I tend not to use lube, or should I say, I use natural lube to get in, after I'm in all is well.

MAMA THANKS FOR THE ADVICE..I WILL KEEP THAT IN MIND...

I aint no punk, but when it kums 2 fucking me in the bootie i'm not 2 sure about all that... U can lick it though thats @ Big Daddie & Daddie...

thanx for the input because I wanted to try but I tense up all the time

@ Delicious- Yes, the main thing is to relax. Have a couple glasses of wine or your fave alcoholic beverage, some soothing music, and a nice back massage to REALLY get you relaxed!!

OKAY BOO RULE NUMBER 1 RELAX ALL YALL MUSCLES HAHAHAHAH SIKE GIRL GET U A BOTTLE OF BABY OIL HAVE HIM POUR IT ALL OVER IN THE CRACKS EVERYWHERE START WIT THE FINGER AND THEN YOUR BODY GET HORNY ENOUGH U GOIN BE BEGAN FOR THAT DICK TO PUT RIGHT IN U ASS. FELLAS!!!

OKAY BOO RULE NUMBER 1 RELAX ALL YALL MUSCLES HAHAHAHAH SIKE GIRL GET U A BOTTLE OF BABY OIL HAVE HIM POUR IT ALL OVER IN THE CRACKS EVERYWHERE START WIT THE FINGER AND THEN YOUR BODY GET HORNY ENOUGH U GOIN BE BEGAN FOR THAT DICK TO PUT RIGHT IN U ASS. FELLAS!!!

Well I have never tried it but MaMa you make it sound so easy. I have always beentoo scared to try it for fear that everyone tells me that it hurts. But the way you just described it makes it sounds good and not painful at all. So u say dont use the baby oil use the products made for the job.

Yes Sunshine...it should not hurt...you are not relaxed if its hurting...use a silicon based lube...baby oil although slippery can lead to bacteria...use the product for the job...it was made for a reason... it really is easy...i am learning from the real "sexperts". Silicon has i believe its glycerin and a little bit can last a long time...it doesn't dry quickly or get sticky or tacky...I know what I am talking about...TRUST ME! (not yellin at you) just seeing that folks are offering advice about baby oil...but really have no idea...