Men: Is Receiving Oral Sex A Requirement

In order for u to be in a relationship with a female....does she have to give u oral sex and if she says she does not and will not do it....do u let her go?

peanut butter wrote:

In order for u to be in a relationship with a female....does she have to give u oral sex and if she says she does not and will not do it....do u let her go?

IM NOT GONNA LIE...IT WILL BE A TOUGH RELATIONSHIP. BECAUSE IF I HAVE GIVEN MYSELF TO YOU 100% THEN I EXPECT YOU TO AT LEAST TRY TO DO THE SAME....ITS NOT A REQUIREMENT, BUT THERE IS A OLD SAYING "WHAT YOU WONT DO SOMEONE ELSE WILL" I LEARNED THE HARD WAY......THAT STATEMENT IS TRUE

well as far as that statement...what u won't do someone else will is b.s.....especially if they knew what u weren't going to do and still chose to be with u....

as far as women thinking that...it saddens me becuz women need to realize that if a man is going to cheat...he's going to cheat..theres nothing u can do about it....a woman can cook, clean, have good pussy, have sex with u every night...suck ur dick..but guess what..if a man wants another woman to suck his dick or to have sex with him he's gonna do it whether his girl does it or not.

I just wish women would do things for a man cuz they want to, not cuz they feel they have to.

I did it for someone but not others...it all depends on the man and how he makes me feel.

Again-- I agree with you Peanut---if a man wants to go out and fuck with someone else-- he will. My ex husband had it good-- I did everything for him--- I mean everything but it wasn't good enough--he had low self-esteem so he went out and cheated on me with several women and stopped having sex with me (I found out later it was because he said if he had sex with me--he wouldn't cheat-- the sex with me would have kept him close--he had no reason to cheat)--- it affected me-- at first. Now I know his actions had no ranking on me or whether I was good enough, etc--- but how he felt about himself. So now I am moving on --looking for me someone who will learn to be all mine---Period!

I do think though that it is a requirement-- if you are into that then you should be into it together and things should not be one-sided. I think if someone says they don't like something, don't try to change them. The best thing to do would be to "Let it go" like Keyshia Cole said.