Is Fantasizing Cheating?

If you're sexin it up with your spouse (sig other) and you're thinking of someone else specifically to buss a nut, is that cheating? What happens when you think of another more often than not to get that nut?

I did it all the time who will know if you do not tell. not cheating to me.I'm not doing the act of it so i'm good .um

what the hell?
You mean you are actually thinking of someone else that you have fucked while you are fucking ur significant other. I am not her to judge but i am going to give you my opinion. I can say that is not cheating because it is not but if think about it if you have to think of that other person on several differnt occassions to bust a nit with your significant other then you need to step back and evaluate you rrelationship with your significant other. It sounds like this other person is who is really turning you on. Or you need to do something to get the fire beack in your relationship with your significant other. This post really blew my mind!!!!
Come on put the shoe on the other foot would you wan ther thinking of another man screwing her just so that she can get a nut with you. But to answer your question no it is not cheating but it is disrespectful.

@Sunshyne - Now this is what the forums are all about - thought provoking topics! I like your answer! Keep em comin!

@Kat - thanks for the reply - I don't think of it as cheating either but...Sunshyne makes a very good point!

I AGREE WITH BOTH LADIES. NO IT'S NOT CHEATING ,BUT YEAH IT IS RATHER FUCKED UP! THERE IS A PROBLEM IF YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO THINK ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE TO BUST!!!

PERSONALLY, I'VE DONE IT A LOT OF TIMES!! HELL, IF YOU CAN'T BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE- LOVE THE ONE YOU'RE WITH!!! LMAO!!!